Personal growth occurs as a result of intentional actions.  Appropriate response to unwelcome events is critical to maturity.  One such occasion is when you receive unsolicited criticism.  The natural human response is often to hit back. Learning to control our reflex reaction and instead respond in a sensible manner is a major step forward.

The self-control shows maturity, but there is additional opportunity as well.  If the criticism is given in a constructive fashion, then it is easier to hear what is shared and be open to considering it.  However, when it is given maliciously and clearly with the intention of hurting you, this is much more difficult.

If your critic points out a weakness you weren’t aware of, you can choose to correct it and therefore turn their intentionally hurtful remark into a positive benefit.  It is important to recognize that no one is perfect and we all have room for improvement.  Becoming angry instead of looking for the positive is only hurting you double.

Choosing to examine what is said instead of ignoring it allows you to display your maturity.  If the criticism applies, then correct it.  If it doesn’t, then recognize that and move past it.

Always be on the lookout for ways to grow.  That is when you will live! . . . your life to the fullest.